Being a mom is no easy feat. From the moment you find out you’re expecting, your entire life changes in an instant. The sleepless nights start earlier than you’d expect. Your priorities shift completely. And your patience is tested in ways you never thought imaginable.

As I sat in the bathroom, staring at those two pink lines on the pregnancy test, my heart skipped a beat. Fear coursed through my veins, drowning out the initial excitement I expected to feel. I wasn’t prepared for this. Thoughts raced through my mind: How would I handle being a mom? Would I be good enough? Could I provide everything my child would need?

Tears welled up in my eyes as I grappled with the overwhelming uncertainty of what lay ahead. I was scared—scared of the changes this new chapter would bring, scared of the responsibilities that now rested on my shoulders, scared of the unknown journey of motherhood.

As the days passed, my fears only seemed to grow. I worried about finances, about balancing a career with raising a child, about whether I would ever feel truly ready for this monumental task. Doubt plagued my mind, casting a shadow over the joy that should have accompanied the news of impending motherhood.

But amidst the fear and uncertainty, a glimmer of hope began to emerge. I realized that I wasn’t alone in this journey—that countless mothers before me had faced similar fears and uncertainties and had emerged stronger for it. I reached out to friends and family for support, leaning on their wisdom and guidance as I navigated this new reality.

With each passing day, my bond with my unborn child grew stronger. I found solace in feeling her gentle kicks and hearing her tiny heartbeat during prenatal appointments. Slowly but surely, the fear began to give way to love—a deep, unshakeable love that transcended all my doubts and insecurities.

And then, one magical day, she was born—a tiny bundle of joy who filled my heart with an overwhelming sense of purpose and belonging. In her eyes, I saw the reflection of all my hopes and dreams for the future. Suddenly, the fears that had once consumed me seemed insignificant in comparison to the boundless love I felt for this precious child.

So becoming a mother is also profoundly joyful. Watching your child grow and thrive, seeing their personality blossom, experiencing milestones and magic – it fills your heart to the brim in a way nothing else can. Motherhood is a beautiful, meaningful, and deeply rewarding chapter.

That’s why I created Slay My Pregnancy – as a judgment-free zone celebrating the thrills and chaos of motherhood while equipping moms with the tools to thrive.

Around here, we’re redefining what it means to “have it all” as a modern mama. From managing the ups and downs that come with expecting and raising tiny humans, to nurturing ourselves along the way, we’re tackling it all – unfiltered and unapologetic.

• Throughout this blog you’ll discover:
  Brutally honest advice about pregnancy, childbirth, and life with a newborn from moms who have lived it
• Hacks for saving time, money, and sanity as a busy parent
• Real talk about self-care, relationships, work-life balance, body image, mental health and more
• Judgment-free support for the highs and lows only parents understand

And more

Consider this blog your guide to navigating motherhood fearlessly – through tear-filled days and blissful moments alike. As the village you never knew you needed, we’re in this together.

It takes a village, mamas. And you just found yours.

Now take a deep breath, and welcome to the wild, messy, magical ride.